Homemaking is whatever you make of it. Every day brings satisfaction along with some work which may be frustrating, routine, and unchallenging. But it is the same in the law office, the dispensary, the laboratory, or the store. There is, however, no more important job than homemaking. As C.S. Lewis said, "A housewife's work... is the one for which all others exist."

James E. Faust


Thursday, September 30, 2010

Cubbies!

I've been trying to come up with a solution for our laundry room for some time. I wanted it to be multi-functional yet still look nice (since guests have to walk through it to use the bathroom). I not only wanted it to be a laundry room but also a mudroom for my kids to put their jackets and shoes when they walked in the door.

We decided to make a trip to IKEA to see if we could get some ideas. Here's what Nathan and I came up with... cubbies! Each child has two cubbies, one for shoes and one for jackets, hats and gloves, whatever the current weather calls for. We also bought some cool hampers to be used as my laundry system. I am totally stoked about how it looks and how functional it is! Is it sad for me to be so excited about storage?

Thursday, September 23, 2010

Feelin' Fallish

Here's my front porch (with a newly painted door!). I wrapped foil leaf garland around the railing and made fall leaves out of scrap book paper for the windows. A scarecrow sitting on a mini bale of hay greets guests who drop by.
I love autumn. It is my favorite time of the year and I always go all out to decorate my front porch and the main floor of my home. I take all of the wall decorations off and replace them with something fall-themed. Some of the decorations I have made myself and others I have purchased at my favorite craft stores, Michael's, Jo Ann Etc, and Hobby Lobby.


My hall tree. I made the fall arrangements sitting on it as well as the barn and scarecrow on top. So cute!

My beautiful piano. Everywhere in my living room you'll see glittering autumn leaves scattered about. It looks so pretty and since my kids aren't allowed to play in the living room they stay put!
It takes me a good hour to pull everything off my walls and put new things up but I love it. Fall time makes me happy and so do my fall decorations. My challenge to you is to make or buy something new to decorate your home with this fall. You deserve it!

This is a close up picture of the fall rag wreath that hangs on my front door. I made it a few years back. It is so pretty!
To learn how to make this super easy wreath click here!

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Laundry Lowdown

Once upon a time a discontented queen used to do laundry for two princesses, a tiny prince, and the king of the castle all in one long and tiring day. Her back would ache from the countless hours she spent sitting on the floor folding each article of clothing. Then she would wearily lug all the baskets of garments up the two flights of stairs to be lovingly placed in the drawers and hung in the closets of each member of the royal family. Laundry day was the day of the week she dreaded the most.
One night, while resting in her bed chamber, the lovely queen thought to herself, "There must be a better way to get the laundry done in a more manageable way." That night the queen had a dream. A dream in which she lived in a magical land where laundry duty was divided into one load a day, stretching across the entire week. The people in the land were very happy because they now had a queen who wasn't exhausted and grumpy after laundry day. When the queen awoke, she knew what she had to do. Here is her system:
  • Buy inexpensive laundry organizers. Mine are made of PVC piping and mesh bags.
  • Divide your loads into one for each day, Mon-Fri.
  • Make signs to place above each hamper to reduce confusion. I wrote the day of the week in the top right corner and whose laundry it is very big in the center.
  • Each sign should be a different color so if you have kids who don't read yet, they'll still know where to put clothes.
  • Start one load each morning and while that is washing, fold and put away the previous day's load, thus having the laundry done before morning nap!
Since creating this system, the queen has realized that most loads don't need to be done weekly and she has in turn reduced her laundry stress greatly. She has taken the day that used to be reserved for washing royal clothing and turned it into Mommy Project Day. There is happiness throughout the land.

Thursday, September 9, 2010

Look Your Best, Feel Your Best

Here's me, freshly showered, makeup on, and ready for my day!

I promised myself a long time ago that when I became a mother I would not "let myself go" so to speak. I've seen it happen too many times before. Mothers these days seem to think they are wearing some sort of badge of honor if after they have kids, they get to walk around all the time looking like crap! Well I'm here to tell you that this happy homemaker never looks like crap, at least not for very long. :)

Long ago I made a commitment to myself that even if I wasn't able to get anything else done during the day, I would still shower, get dressed, and put on makeup, no matter what! Why? Because it makes me feel happy to know that I took some time for myself. I am not the type of person that can go shopping in pajama pants. I saw a woman like that once. Her child was dressed with combed hair and she was wearing her pajamas, hair uncombed, and her ensemble was completed by a pair of grubby-looking slippers. I'm sorry, but if the image you want to portray to the world is, "I'm a mom and my kids come first, therefore I've stopped caring about myself." then by all means, you keep on shopping in your p.j.s!

However, if you want others to say, "That woman cares enough about her kids to recognize that if she doesn't value herself to allow some 'me time' then she'll be a more stressed out mommy." That's the way I see it and I make time in my day to look my best.

A good friend of mine once asked her husband to prioritize what he wanted to see when he walked in the door after a long work day. She gave him these four things to choose from: A "hot" wife (meaning she had taken the time to shower, fix her hair, and apply makeup), a clean house, happy kids (meaning they were being quiet and occupying themselves), and dinner on the table. She told him to choose which one meant the most to him and then she would try her best to accommodate him. What he said surprised her. He said first and foremost he wanted to have a wife who looked "hot".

I asked my husband the same thing thinking he would choose seeing dinner hot and ready for him on the table. I was just as shocked when he prioritized that last and put me first. So not only does it make me happy to look my best but it makes my man happy too. It's a win/win situation! :)

So how do I accomplish looking my best everyday? I guarantee you my life is just as busy as yours. I have four young children, three who are still at home with me during the day, and one who is a nursing baby. Yes, I am busy! It's really quite simple though. It's important to me and so I make it a priority. I don't start the day off cleaning the house. I've tried that before and while I was able to get the house clean, I found I was never able to get those extra minutes back to take care of myself. Usually I get myself ready during the baby's morning nap or if I have to take my daughter to preschool I shower the night before so I have one less thing to accomplish in the morning.

When I look my best I feel my best which makes me a happier person in general. However, if you don't care how you look then just disregard this whole post and keep on shopping in your pajamas. You just won't see me joining you!